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***JustAskJulie*** · 07-11-2008, 06:41 PM

If you can't discuss why your sex life is dwindling then you don't have good communication... if you can't even really discuss that issue then I don't see you being able to really discuss swinging.

I also have to agree with the above comment that a couple who NEVER fights isn't in that great of shape. Most counselors will agree with that as well, it tends to be a sign of poor communication. And as others have already said, swinging won't FIX anything, it will only amplify your existing relationship (problems and all).

Talk to her and find out why your sex life is dwindling. It could well be that she's just bored and once you talk it out and work on it you may both find that trying new things (whether swinging or not) may be just the answer you need. But, until you can really talk things out you'll never know.

07-11-2008, 06:41 PM	#9 (permalink)
*JustAskJulie* Your Hostess Join Date: Nov 2002 Posts: 22,082 Location: Alabama Status: Female SLS Name:swingersboard Blog Entries: 58	Re: Sex life is dwindling; could swinging liven things up? If you can't discuss why your sex life is dwindling then you don't have good communication... if you can't even really discuss that issue then I don't see you being able to really discuss swinging. I also have to agree with the above comment that a couple who NEVER fights isn't in that great of shape. Most counselors will agree with that as well, it tends to be a sign of poor communication. And as others have already said, swinging won't FIX anything, it will only amplify your existing relationship (problems and all). Talk to her and find out why your sex life is dwindling. It could well be that she's just bored and once you talk it out and work on it you may both find that trying new things (whether swinging or not) may be just the answer you need. But, until you can really talk things out you'll never know.