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Originally Posted by ShadyOne13  We never fight....which is very rare in relationships. Although I am fairly open, I tell her if I think somone is hot or has a nice "add part here" always have. |
These two things stuck out to me in your second post.
Honestly...not ever fighting really isn't that healthy. Seriously. Now, when you say that I don't know if you mean that you aren't regularly having knock down drag out fights...or if you mean that you absolutely have no agurments/disagreements. Now, the first really isn't all that healthy at all...but if there are no disagreements at all then someone is bottling something up to keep the peace.
How does she react to your comments about other women? Did she state why she cheated? Don't buy into the myth that women cheat for emotions and men just cheat for sex. If for some reason she wasn't feeling attractive to you, someone else made her feel attractive by propositioning her and them having sex. I am not saying it's right what she did, because we don't condone cheating.
Broach the topic with her, have her read messages here on the SB, have her post if she is comfortable with it. Do keep in mind that swinging isn't for everyone and she may not want to do it. Good luck!