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rdy46227 · 07-11-2008, 04:18 PM

My fantasy partner generally wants to at the edge of pain and pleasure, a touch of pain backing off into increased pleasure, the pain/pleasure line advancing slightly, and the next touch of pain a wee bit farther out. This, plus traditional male programming, has always had my subconscious saying "need bigger cock".

Several past lovers have sincerely complemented me as "small enough to fit anywhere and big enough to touch all the right spots".

Given that I'm +/- 1/4" (.63 cm) of average length and average girth, it seems that average works great. Or, most men (2/3 or 1sd are within 3/4" 2cm of the average) should have not problem with anal sex with most women.

So I suggest that it's the women who as gateway allowing more "smaller" men as anal lovers, which leads to "smaller" men being able to say they've experienced anal sex. From a purely sensation point of view, all men should enjoy anal the same. Put these two statements together and we hear "smaller" men enjoying anal sex because "smaller" men get more of it, i.e. are allowed anal by women.

In other words, "larger" men would express the same preferences as the "smaller" men if they were getting anal, which they aren't because of size considerations. (Or so my theory says...)

As far as the friction goes, they experience is different in many ways, not just in the amount of friction. Friction intensity reduces after a while as muscles relax, and for a couple of my lovers who did Kegles, it ended up similar to what they offered during PIV.

Personally, my preference is finishing with anal (after PIV) about half the time. The "finishing" comes from always taking a break to clean up, so after I return the next go around can be PIV again.

07-11-2008, 04:18 PM	#20 (permalink)
rdy46227 Here to Stay Join Date: May 2005 Posts: 72 Location: Indianapolis Status: Male/Couple	Re: Guys with smaller dicks and anal sex My fantasy partner generally wants to at the edge of pain and pleasure, a touch of pain backing off into increased pleasure, the pain/pleasure line advancing slightly, and the next touch of pain a wee bit farther out. This, plus traditional male programming, has always had my subconscious saying "need bigger cock". Several past lovers have sincerely complemented me as "small enough to fit anywhere and big enough to touch all the right spots". Given that I'm +/- 1/4" (.63 cm) of average length and average girth, it seems that average works great. Or, most men (2/3 or 1sd are within 3/4" 2cm of the average) should have not problem with anal sex with most women. So I suggest that it's the women who as gateway allowing more "smaller" men as anal lovers, which leads to "smaller" men being able to say they've experienced anal sex. From a purely sensation point of view, all men should enjoy anal the same. Put these two statements together and we hear "smaller" men enjoying anal sex because "smaller" men get more of it, i.e. are allowed anal by women. In other words, "larger" men would express the same preferences as the "smaller" men if they were getting anal, which they aren't because of size considerations. (Or so my theory says...) As far as the friction goes, they experience is different in many ways, not just in the amount of friction. Friction intensity reduces after a while as muscles relax, and for a couple of my lovers who did Kegles, it ended up similar to what they offered during PIV. Personally, my preference is finishing with anal (after PIV) about half the time. The "finishing" comes from always taking a break to clean up, so after I return the next go around can be PIV again.