 Re: Maybe in the wrong spot but asking advice...
It's hard to say.
On one hand, swinging isn't going to fix things that need fixing. As a lot of people will tell you, if your relationship is in trouble, swinging might hasten the crash. On the other hand, most couples will tell you they came to swinging to spice things up sexually. A solid, well established couple with good communication can get a lot of benefits from swinging.
Bottom line: talk to her. Talk about everything - your fantasies, turn ons, desires, wants, needs. How do you feel about her having sex with others? Have you told her? Talk and talk and talk some more.
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