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Originally Posted by herpob  Oral / Anal has been our special act and anal play on him. We sort of go with the mood of how hot we are as to what we give into unless it was preplanned. Anal excites both of us and we are not opposed to it with people we trust sooooo......
We definitely reserve the L word for each other, no doubt about that one, we care for others but do not love them in a marriage sense.
We also only massage one another. Sex is one thing but intimacy outside of sex is a no no for us. |
I know I mentioned some sexual acts being more intimate than others in another of my posts.
Don't think me two-faced.
There are always more personal moments than others what I am talking about is the emotional acts that get included.
Massage for example is extremely intimate and "special for us" when we talk or relax under our mate's hands. And then there is the sexual massaging of someone else's scrotum while sucking them off or massaging them anally, intimate in a "you better know them and trust them" way but not tenderly like my husband.
With other people it is mostly always physical pleasure, the emotional pleasure usually comes from watching one another being pleased, the emotions are always sexual.
As far as sex in among our couples we do a lot of condom free sex. So far everyone has stayed true and honest (as best we know) and clean. I hope we always all respect the cleanliness for the other's benefits. Condom free among people you trust allows for a bit more flavored "kink" is you ask me.