 Re: Playing with a couple who doesn't use protection
Do you also ask about testing for STD? Definately bring it up early on. As for us, as long as we are using protection, it's all good. Personally, if someone told me they had never had bareback sex, my first thought would be they are liars...
Is it your idea if they've had bareback sex in the past, they are a disease risk? Are you going to ask if they've used condoms on shared toys? (I'm being serious here.) Or ask if they ever touched someone's genitals and then their own with the same hand, without disinfecting?
Personally, are more interested in hearing if they've been tested recently, and what kind of testing was used. It's always ironc to hear people talk about requiring condoms for penetration, but not for oral, and not for masturbation. When you ask a lot of people about testing, most often all you get is a vague "once a year" answer, and they don't seem to know much of anything about the tests they supposedly have taken.
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