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mra · 07-10-2008, 03:59 AM

The element of roughness/competition that I see are things like, If one of the girls gets "butchy" with the other one, within a day or so the other one will repirocate in a similiar domineering fashion. If one bites the others nipples hard in the near future the favour will be returned, or during sex or otherwise if one slaps the other hard on the buttocks, similar response. On occasion they have both started to make out, striped to the waist and played/sucked each other breasts, each getting rough with the other, but then stopped without proceeding further. On other occasions they have gone all the way with a similar start, so!

I know that they are attracted to each other, since they are having sex with each other (sometimes it just being the two of them). When the three of us are together I can see they enjoy being with each other sexually. It is just that I get the feeling that there is an element of competition between them also. The roughness all has a sexual dimension (there does not appear to be hostility outside this area - at least in front of me), it is almost like they do not want the other thinking that she can be dominated.

Like I said, perhaps as the male in the middle, I am reading too much into it. On the other hand I am just wondering whether in a situation like this are the women perhaps still a little resentful/jealous of each other and that is reflected in their sexual aggression towards each other?

07-10-2008, 03:59 AM	#5 (permalink)
mra Registered Join Date: Jan 2006 Posts: 3 Location: A land far far away Status: M	Re: FMF Situation Question The element of roughness/competition that I see are things like, If one of the girls gets "butchy" with the other one, within a day or so the other one will repirocate in a similiar domineering fashion. If one bites the others nipples hard in the near future the favour will be returned, or during sex or otherwise if one slaps the other hard on the buttocks, similar response. On occasion they have both started to make out, striped to the waist and played/sucked each other breasts, each getting rough with the other, but then stopped without proceeding further. On other occasions they have gone all the way with a similar start, so! I know that they are attracted to each other, since they are having sex with each other (sometimes it just being the two of them). When the three of us are together I can see they enjoy being with each other sexually. It is just that I get the feeling that there is an element of competition between them also. The roughness all has a sexual dimension (there does not appear to be hostility outside this area - at least in front of me), it is almost like they do not want the other thinking that she can be dominated. Like I said, perhaps as the male in the middle, I am reading too much into it. On the other hand I am just wondering whether in a situation like this are the women perhaps still a little resentful/jealous of each other and that is reflected in their sexual aggression towards each other?