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Old 07-09-2008, 08:58 PM   #5 (permalink)
Chicup
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Default Re: The hypocrisy of SOME swingers

I hate to break it to you but single males are the bottom of the swinging food chain, get used to it.

And while sometimes they may be both trying to get your woman, what many of us are looking for is partner exchange, wife swapping, you know swinging, not just a guy to bang the wife.

I'll add that while you experience auto rejection as a single male, what do you think happens to couples where one of them is very unattractive, or both? They don't get the time of day either.

People are at clubs to socialize and have sex with other people (mostly) if they have no interest in single males most don't want to encourage you to try or waste their time (and time is limited to hook up).

Now that being said to you, we are not rude to single males, we will say hi, we will be polite though we will let them know right away we are not interested.

I'd think of it this way. I get a lot of salesmen showing up at my work wanting me to buy their crap. If they come with something I have no interest in, I'm not going to give them the time of day, rarely they have something useful to me and I'll be willing to talk. You are basically selling yourselves to these couples, and they just don't want to buy what you have to offer, and may have had rude experiences dealing with single men in the past. We've never been to a vegas club but our closest swinger friends have and they described said club (quite well known) as creepy with an over abundance of single men who seemed to be waiting around for couples to start having sex. As you said you are not sponsored, couples have no reason to think you just are not some creep guy at Vegas looking to get some action while cheating on his wife back in Nebraska. Get over yourself.
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