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Old 07-08-2008, 09:50 PM   #11 (permalink)
Pepper & Drew
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Default Re: TO preplan potential playmate or not?

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Originally Posted by good times View Post
Nope, we don't make plans to play with anyone ahead of time, and in fact, have said to people that made an assumption that we were going to play with them, just because we were there and they were, almost exactly what she said to you. It was not that we weren't interested in playing with them, it is just that we make no plans when attending a party ahead of time as a general rule, and are usually at the party to meet new folks, not hook up with people we already know.
So true.

Never make assumptions when it comes to playing. You know what they say occurs when you ASS U ME. We've agreed to meet people at a party, but have made it very clear that meeting them was the only guarantee. We've frequently been at house parties where we didn't play with our friends. Why? Well, because we can play with them another time. If there's a new couple, they may not live as close, or we may not have an opportunity to see them again. You may plan yourself right into a corner.

The only sure thing is the one who 'brung ya. Other than that, plans are out.

Pepper
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