[Drkknight]

Had a situation occur that has me a little perplexed. I met this couple, we chatted a few times, set up a meeting and got together and they let me know that they were into "rough trade". Now I made it clear from the beginning that I was pretty vanilla and that I wasn't into rough stuff. The wife said cool but the husband had something else on his mind. We get started and he breaks out a barber strap. That was a deal breaker for me. I dressed and left. Got a call a couple of days later with "i didn't understand what you were looking for". Am I crazy? Has anybody had a similar experience where limits were established then changed?