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2inVT · 07-08-2008, 05:33 PM

If you're going to plan to play with someone specific at a party, you need to discuss it with them first.

Some people don't want to commit ahead to setting up playtime with a couple at a party. Some do.

Where it goes bad is when one couple plans without making sure the other couple is on board with it. By telling her that "we hope to end the evening playing with you," it makes it sound as though this is what you've planned, and you expect them to agree. Better to ask them when you want to play with them.

07-08-2008, 05:33 PM	#8 (permalink)
2inVT Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Jan 2006 Posts: 136 Location: Vermont Status: couple SLS Name:2inVT	Re: TO preplan potential playmate or not? If you're going to plan to play with someone specific at a party, you need to discuss it with them first. Some people don't want to commit ahead to setting up playtime with a couple at a party. Some do. Where it goes bad is when one couple plans without making sure the other couple is on board with it. By telling her that "we hope to end the evening playing with you," it makes it sound as though this is what you've planned, and you expect them to agree. Better to ask them when you want to play with them. __________________ By the time they had diminished from 50 to eight, the other dwarves began to suspect "Hungry".