ARGH!!
I was all calmed down & ready to go... Then my husband got sick!
I still went over to their house & hung out for a while, & they were really cool & understanding. The good news is that this is still supposed to happen & I feel good about it. The bad news is that now I have "X" number of days to get all nervous again!
OH well I'll just re-read all the helpful advise from you kind people!