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***JustAskJulie*** · 07-08-2008, 04:25 PM

I don't think you should ever EXPECT to play with someone just because they are there... or even if you attend with them. We've gone to clubs with good friends that we'd have no trouble playing with at all but it's always the most fun when everyone knows they are open to do whatever/whoever they want and if everything works out to play together the door is open as well.

I can kinda see where her reaction came from but it was a bit harsh and I think that perhaps she realized that and that may have been where her actions came from later (flirting, etc). I think more than anything she didn't want you to assume that just because they were there that you would be playing with them.

07-08-2008, 04:25 PM	#4 (permalink)
*JustAskJulie* Your Hostess Join Date: Nov 2002 Posts: 22,307 Location: Alabama Status: Female SLS Name:swingersboard Blog Entries: 59	Re: TO preplan potential playmate or not? I don't think you should ever EXPECT to play with someone just because they are there... or even if you attend with them. We've gone to clubs with good friends that we'd have no trouble playing with at all but it's always the most fun when everyone knows they are open to do whatever/whoever they want and if everything works out to play together the door is open as well. I can kinda see where her reaction came from but it was a bit harsh and I think that perhaps she realized that and that may have been where her actions came from later (flirting, etc). I think more than anything she didn't want you to assume that just because they were there that you would be playing with them.