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Originally Posted by arvcpl  .Some of this may have to do with your use of the term "soft swap." Anytime you use the word "swap" it implys interaction between the male of one couple and the female of another. If you are telling couples or have written on your profile that you are a "soft swap" couple then people are going to assume that at some point you are looking for some form of M/F interaction and the other woman was within her rights (in fact she was doing the right thing) in asking if it was ok for her to show your hubby some attention.
If you are only into F/F then that needs to be clear to everyone from the start. |
To us, "soft swap" always signals that M/F contact of any kind might be out of the question, but not always. You really have to ask what is acceptable in that regard with any "soft swap" couple before you play.