[JustAskJulie]

Club owners can't/ won't do anything about someone unless they know what happened. They aren't likely to just take word of mouth or rumors (of what may have happened at other clubs)... if they did that then anyone would get kicked out everytime someone had some small beef with them. (ie. someone refuses to have sex with someone else so they decide to make up some story to get them thrown out of the club). In some cases, clubs do keep in contact with each other and let each other know who to watch out for, but even then a club is not likely to ban someone based on what happened at another club without some sign that it has happened (or is likely to happen) at their club.

The club owners NEED to hear from you what happened. If anything like this ever happens again anywhere tell the club owners/hosts IMMIDEATELY. As it is, they do want to talk to you about what happened, so talk to them and be honest. Don't hold what happened against the club itself. You've been having a good time there. There are bad people in swinging and you will encounter them at every club you go to. You have to swing defensively and in the end it is always up to you to make sure that you are safe and that others are staying within your boundaries. The club owners can only do so much, and they can't be standing by to hold your hand and make sure that you don't encounter the big bad wolf.