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arvcpl · 07-08-2008, 01:19 PM

If you are only comfortable with F/F-only play and interaction, then you need to be upfront about that. If you are going to get paranoid any time some gal shows some interest in your hubby then you are going to be in for a long and bumpy road.

Some of this may have to do with your use of the term "soft swap." Anytime you use the word "swap" it implys interaction between the male of one couple and the female of another. If you are telling couples or have written on your profile that you are a "soft swap" couple then people are going to assume that at some point you are looking for some form of M/F interaction and the other woman was within her rights (in fact she was doing the right thing) in asking if it was ok for her to show your hubby some attention.

If you are only into F/F then that needs to be clear to everyone from the start.

07-08-2008, 01:19 PM	#7 (permalink)
arvcpl Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Jan 2007 Posts: 135 Location: Arvada, co Status: couple	Re: How to tell which one they want?? If you are only comfortable with F/F-only play and interaction, then you need to be upfront about that. If you are going to get paranoid any time some gal shows some interest in your hubby then you are going to be in for a long and bumpy road. Some of this may have to do with your use of the term "soft swap." Anytime you use the word "swap" it implys interaction between the male of one couple and the female of another. If you are telling couples or have written on your profile that you are a "soft swap" couple then people are going to assume that at some point you are looking for some form of M/F interaction and the other woman was within her rights (in fact she was doing the right thing) in asking if it was ok for her to show your hubby some attention. If you are only into F/F then that needs to be clear to everyone from the start.