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Originally Posted by two42lovers  Note the study is saying the opposite. The more sexually permissive a swinging couple is, the less commitment the couple has to each other. Couples who are less sexually permissive are more committed. This sounds like pretty good ammo for people who are against swinging. (i.e. the more of a swinger you are, the less committed you are to your relationship.) |
This is an interesting approach...It reminds me about an online friend that likes to use the word RESPECT a lot in regards with the lifestyle....C'mmon, we're getting our kicks from having strangers insert their d...s in our lovely wife's mouths or whatever orifices they seem fit.
Respect and commitment doesn't have anything to do with the act in itself.
We just are at a bond and comfort level where we wanna see our loved ones enjoying themselves, I see it as an ultimate act of selflessnes and I can see no greater commitment than that.
Of course you run into odd ones that care about numbers or don't care about their spouse and see swinging as a way of getting sex outside their relationship even if their spouse repeatedly has to take one for the team.