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***JustAskJulie*** · 07-08-2008, 01:11 PM

It's important to remember that before you can have a really open dialogue about swinging you have to be able to have an open dialogue about everything else... especially everything sexual.

At this point you guys aren't even married yet (I don't know if you intend to be). You guys may have decided together that that is not something you want to do and that is ok.

However, If she hopes that there is a possibility of marriage down the road she may see you bringing up swinging now as a sign that you really aren't happy with her or that you are already bored with her... and if that's the case then the possibility of marriage is not likely to be there. If marriage is in the cards, I would suggest you work towards that before you worry about trying to add swinging into the mix. Make sure your relationship is 100% well-grounded before you try to bring other people in. Otherwise, she has every reason to be scared.

07-08-2008, 01:11 PM	#3 (permalink)
*JustAskJulie* Your Hostess Join Date: Nov 2002 Posts: 22,307 Location: Alabama Status: Female SLS Name:swingersboard Blog Entries: 59	Re: I think swinging makes a lot of sense It's important to remember that before you can have a really open dialogue about swinging you have to be able to have an open dialogue about everything else... especially everything sexual. At this point you guys aren't even married yet (I don't know if you intend to be). You guys may have decided together that that is not something you want to do and that is ok. However, If she hopes that there is a possibility of marriage down the road she may see you bringing up swinging now as a sign that you really aren't happy with her or that you are already bored with her... and if that's the case then the possibility of marriage is not likely to be there. If marriage is in the cards, I would suggest you work towards that before you worry about trying to add swinging into the mix. Make sure your relationship is 100% well-grounded before you try to bring other people in. Otherwise, she has every reason to be scared.