 Re: What Happened????
As des1re06 said, there could be so many reasons. It's hard to say at this point without more information, even then, we can only make some guesses that might help you figure it out.
You didn't mention how things went with you and his wife. That can play a big role. How did you and her do?
Also, his wife may have said things to her husband after the first play date that changed his comfort level with how he plays with your wife.
I took a look at your profile, very nice, but there is one statement that confused me:
R-has had same room sex with another couple.
Your profile doesn't make it clear who "R" is, I have to presume you mean your wife, still, she is listed as straight (as are you). Maybe this guy is wondering if you may be interested in moving to m/m sex. Just a wild thought. Sometimes if you don't make those things clear guys can worry about that at the back of their mind. Possibly rewording that line to "Mrs R has experienced f/f play while with a couple" would make it more clear, if indeed that is what you mean.
If your relationship is good and open with this couple, I'd suggest bringing it up to him, man to man, and see if you can learn what's going through his mind. It may be something that can be handled through discussion.
Good luck!
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