My ex moved in with his current girl friend so fast I'm not sure my smell had left the bed yet.
Recently they informed the kids that she was pregnant. I found out through the kids, not a great feeling, but hey its thier lifes and I'm not a part of it any longer.
Thing is, I look at what they have and then look at what I have. In my eyes I am the better off.
I have a boyfriend who I took my time finding and we are moving in together this August, but we will have been together just short of two years. So I know this is what I want. I waited for both me and the kids to be ready for this new life.
As for them having a baby and me not having one. HA! I am 36 yrs old, my kids are 9 and 10. In just 8-9 years I will be free to do as I please and not have to worry about curfews and bedtimes. They still have another 18+ years to go.
Was I hurt by the news....Ya abit, even though you know your relationship is over and it is not something you want to pursue, the option is still kinda there. Now you HAVE to face the fact that that life you shared with your EX is truly over, that chapter is done.
That means change and having to move on in your life. These are things that humans have a hard time doing.
I don't think it is jelousy you are feeling but rather a sadness at a part of your life (a very big part of your life) has just come to a definate end.
Stop looking at what you don't have and take a long hard look at what you do have.
I think you have it pretty good.
I kinda like the sound of "my lover" over "my husband' anyway. It tells a person EXACLY
WHAT your partner
IS not just who he is.
Your friend
Prettylady
