Re: How to tell which one they want?? I don't know how you met this couple or what they know about what you're looking for, but if you're only in this to focus on female female play, make sure you're clear about it to every couple you meet. I would assume, if I'm meeting a soft swap couple, that the male partner engages in some kind of sex play outside of intercourse. In fact, I'd be shocked if he didn't. "Swapping" does imply partner swapping. You may want to reclassify yourselves if that's not what you're looking for. |