[willyoats]

When we started swinging, my wife had yeast infections after almost every new partner. With condoms, without condons, with lube, without lube. No difference.

Then we went overseas for a year. No new partners and no yeast infections. Draw your own conclusions.

I agree with the folks who rave about Eros and Wet. Both are great, especially Wet if you are doing in the pool. However, both get gummy after a while, although a little water sprinkled on will pretty much solve that, as it will with Astroglide.

We now use only mineral oil. There is absolutely no drying out, but it is bad for condoms (which we don't use any more, anyway). All other partners say they like it and they have no after effects.