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Originally Posted by srlkokie75  Ok, I hope someone has some input on this. So here it is, I started talking to the female side of the couple, and she is awesome. Funny, and cool. Well, we went to their house and everything went well, we just talked and just got to know eachother. Well, the next day i was on the Im and talkig to her. She said what did your husband think of us, well, of course he thought they were alright(first meeting, hello!!) Well, she said now i can start flirtng with him and not scare him off, right. I said well probably not, atleast i dont think so. Newbies, is why she asked that. Well, i got the impression the only reason she started talking to me was to get to him, we are still a soft swap couple, girl/girl only right now. So, my question is am i looking at this wrong, you know I am not jealous at all. My prob with this is dont sweeten me up to get to him, LS or not, that doesnt fly with me AT ALL. Am i over reacting or am i seeing it how it is???
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Ok, first... Take a deep cleansing breathe and RELAX...
We all do just what you are doing right now, in this very post.. OVER ANALYZING.. reading into each and every statement..
In this case its MHO, that while yes they understand that you are a soft swap couple, part of the fun can be to TEASE, her husband and YOURS.. Flirting thru IMs can be fun, teasing in REAL LIFE can be great fun..
Let me ask a question, you state plainly that you are a soft swap couple, does that mean that the only contact your husband will receive will come from you, or just that the actual sex (intercourse) is just with you?