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***JustAskJulie*** · 07-07-2008, 07:54 PM

I think you might be reading too much into it (but I'm not there so I can't say for sure). It's possible that since she was originally talking to you (the female) that she assumed you were the more ok one in regards to swinging... and that your husband was the one who needed to "take things slower".

Some guys like an aggressive woman, some don't so she may be trying to guage that as well as just making sure that he's ok now.

My question is, what's wrong with flirting? As long as it's all out in the open. That's why you are there after all, right?

07-07-2008, 07:54 PM	#2 (permalink)
*JustAskJulie* Your Hostess Join Date: Nov 2002 Posts: 22,307 Location: Alabama Status: Female SLS Name:swingersboard Blog Entries: 59	Re: How to tell which one they want?? I think you might be reading too much into it (but I'm not there so I can't say for sure). It's possible that since she was originally talking to you (the female) that she assumed you were the more ok one in regards to swinging... and that your husband was the one who needed to "take things slower". Some guys like an aggressive woman, some don't so she may be trying to guage that as well as just making sure that he's ok now. My question is, what's wrong with flirting? As long as it's all out in the open. That's why you are there after all, right?