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Originally Posted by Mountainman Joe  And my wife said she was the only girl for me. So what do I do now? We live up in the mountains with no clubs nearby?
Oregon Joe |
Rather than jump the gun, lets ask for MORE information..
We have no idea :
How long they have been together..
how this was presented..
or what conversations or fantasies they might have already, or worse NOT discussed..
Joe, if you havent talked about fantasies with her.. shared yours and asked her of hers.. then it might be case where you were thinking for jumping way ahead of the game..
Personal expereinces aside, What is she into/like/dislike as far as sex goes..
There is no formula to transform anyone, but setting the proper mood, planting a seed in the mind and allowing it to grow, can go a long way..
Another thought, many women are EXTREMELY jealous of any other woman.. If this lifestyle has such a draw and you want to partake, maybe its time to think in a different direction.. Satisfy
her fantasies while you open her to the lifestyle..
But more importantly than anything else, TALK honestly to her in and out of bed.. and LISTEN to what she says rather than focus on driving your point home..