 Re: Swinging individually?
The problem is that some sort of relationship between your wife and this man already exists. I'm not implying she's cheating on you; they just already have a flirtatious friendship in order for her to consider him. Your uncertainty about whether you'd be comfortable with her being with him with or without you indicates that you either aren't ready for it or your intuition is telling you it won't turn out positively.
Trust your intuition! It's telling you "no" so don't go there. If you and your wife decide to try swinging later, my suggestion is that you meet someone at a swing club/online/etc. who "knows the score," instead of going with someone who, even if your wife doesn't have the attachment, may have the attachment to her.
And finally, you must be a great husband to consider something you're not comfortable with to make her happy! Good luck! |