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Originally Posted by magiriano  HE IS KNOWN FOR BEING A PIG, YET ALLOWED IN WHILE ALL THE OTHER CLUBS IN TOWN BANNED HIS ASS! We should've been warned about his behaviour right after we WERE ASKED TO AND WE PAID our membership DUES. |
Actually, no, not only does the club owner have no obligation to warn you of this persons rumored behavior, but he could be in some serious financial trouble if he did. The club owners only recourse with customers like this is if you complain about him personally, and your claim is substantiated by other evidence, he can boot him out of the club. But, failing any evidence to warranty kicking him out of the club, their is nothing he can do. But again, under no circumstances can a club owner tell another patron that one of his members has a bad reputation. Spreading unsubstantiated rumors about paying customers would be one of the quickest ways to lose his business that I can think of.
I know several people that have been kicked out of one of the local clubs. This does not mean that the next subsequent club he goes to will automatically kick him out. As long as they learned their lesson and behave appropriately at the new club they are fine. If they continue with what got them kicked out of the first club, it usually isn't long and they get kicked out of the next one though.
What it boils down to is that, at a club, your interaction with others is solely controlled by you, no one else is responsible for your actions or what happens to you. And, contrary to what some others here have said, under the setting you describe (public play/orgy room setting), we have seen this type of thing happen often. The problem is that in these orgy type settings their is a lot less communication ahead of time. I have seen, many times, someone get pissed when in a public play room when someone they invited to play didn't automatically use a condom. My first question always is, "did you tell him ahead of time that he was expected to use one?" If not, then who's fault is this? Contrary to popular belief, less than half the swinging population regularly insist on condoms for play.
Now don't get me wrong, I have seen this type of predatory guy you describe many times. But the fact of the matter is, like the others have said, the only way something will get done about him is if you report it to the club owner. And it is true that it may be your word against his. But even if yours is the only complaint, it will get noted, and if someone else lodges a similar complaint, it won't just be your word against his any more. In fact, it wouldn't surprise me, in this case, if the reason the club owner wants to talk to you is to substantiate a claim someone else has made against the same person.