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Old 07-07-2008, 03:53 PM   #1 (permalink)
Daddy68
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Hi,
My wife and I recently were discussing fantasy's and it came out that my wife has been fantasizing about a friend of her's. As the conversation became more honest she admitted that there has been sexual tension between the two of them for some time now, in fact I would guess at least five to six years. Whenever I had brought up my interest in "expanding" our sexual activities, she was adamant that this would not be an option, although when I told her that I might be open to her satisfying her curiosity with this person, she seemed interested in the idea. We still continue to process this idea, but I wonder if this is a positive way to explore this in so far as whether or not I am present when/if the two do actually get together. It seems to me that the experience would need to somehow deepen our relationship, and I'm not sure if I'm willing to not share the experience with her, albeit I may or may not participate. She has always told me that she couldn't imagine sex with another person without an emotional attachment. To my thinking this type of lifestyle could work if it was clear that the basis of creating new relationships is for sexual pleasure, although friendship is welcomed. I'm not sure if started with a friendship of six plus years is such a good idea. I am worried that she will not be able to seperate the two. Any insight would be greatly appreciated.
Daddy
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