[good times]

Welcome to the board LokisFemaleHalf,

Thanks for coming and giving us your perspective. Unfortunately, what you said only reinforces my opinion, we wouldn't touch this guy with a ten foot pole.

The fact is, he is not a swinger, so their is no way to know his motives or what he will ultimately do until it is too late. Sadly, the internet is full of stories of people hooking up with someone who seemed perfect over months of correspondence, then turned out to be a psycho in person.

As others have said around here before, if you want the best chance of meeting someone who will give you a good first swinging experience, "go were the swingers are". People already involved in swinging are doing it for the same reasons as you are. So you know what their motives are, and you know what you are getting ahead of time.