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Originally Posted by Jareth  The next time you are in rapport (having fun) with a person, wait for a high point in the conversation. When that moment comes, say confidently and sincerely, "hey, I like you." After that, shut the fuck up. ~~, and wait for them to respond. |
Nice plan, simple, easy to remember.
However you have to be absolutely sure of their response before diving in like that. If the other party responds with "I like you too but not in that way" you simply cover up your embarassment and move on. An "Eww I didn't mean to lead you on Eww" will result in a mounth of embarassment related performance issues. Most men dread that last response, and therefore allow our fear of rejection to cause us to dwell at the sticking point. Hitting it at the high point of the conversation could alleviate some of that fear, or it could push us to act reclessly, giddy with good emotions. There's a fine line there, I'm not sure I learned how to walk it.