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Oh I just wanted to add one more thing. It was a about a year from the time we first signed up on a swing site untill we had our first experience and it was about another six months after that before we actually became active in the lifestyle. so I don't think 2 years is necessarily unrealistic or abnormal at all. However like I said in my previous post at some point you are going to have to realise you have done everything in your power and you are just going to have to have some faith in yourselves.

Doing research and asking questions is responsible and wise however there will come a point where more opinions will just confuse the issues and cloud the waters.