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We recommend that you makes it easy. Have dinner at a convenient restaurant with each prospect, get to know them, and if the chemistry is right, set a play date later. In the invitation to them, let them know the ground rules, that this is just a dinner and meeting. Most experienced swingers understand the need for chemistry, and that chemistry cannot be judged over the Internet, it has to be face to face.

Then, don't agonize over it. You will sense the chemistry if it is there. If it is not, thank them for the nice evening, good conversation, and move on.

We have met swinging couples with whom we became good friends, but never swung because the chemistry was not there for swinging. And, we have met folks with whom we had so much chemistry, that after dinner we decided to throw out the rule and headed for their hotel room for a three hour romp! No body complained in either situation!