The Swingers Board - View Single Post - Emotional & logistical problems of an open marriage(was:MFM then FMF for starters?)

twohots4u2 · 07-06-2008, 05:24 PM

Every swinger has to start somewhere. This sounds like a feasible way to start. We feel that it is far better to hook up with a relative stranger than to try to convert a vanilla friend or someone you have known in business, etc. We love to play, but we like to keep it separate from our "real" life. Since he is 40 miles away that is probably enough separation. Before you actually meet him, we recommend that you lay it out for him. He is being invited to join a couple and work with the husband give the wife all the pleasure she desires. And, no matter how well it goes, it will probably be a one-time thing, as neither of you want it to interfere with your relationship.

07-06-2008, 05:24 PM	#14 (permalink)
twohots4u2 Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Dec 2005 Posts: 153 Location: Arlington, VA Status: Couple SLS Name:twohots4u2	Re: Newbies: MFM, then FMF for starters? Every swinger has to start somewhere. This sounds like a feasible way to start. We feel that it is far better to hook up with a relative stranger than to try to convert a vanilla friend or someone you have known in business, etc. We love to play, but we like to keep it separate from our "real" life. Since he is 40 miles away that is probably enough separation. Before you actually meet him, we recommend that you lay it out for him. He is being invited to join a couple and work with the husband give the wife all the pleasure she desires. And, no matter how well it goes, it will probably be a one-time thing, as neither of you want it to interfere with your relationship.