Re: First time experience was a bad one. Like VegasLee, I feel that my part when we swing is to make sure Tina is safe. Our first swinging experience was at a club, and after we had played with a guy for a while, I realized that he was moving up to put his bareback cock in her. He had just finished making her cum from oral, her legs were spread wide, she was so out of it that her eyes were glazed, and she was not making any move to stop him. It was then that it hit me, when we are swinging, I had to make sure that she was safe and protected. I stopped him about an inch from entering her. He was upset and did not want to put on a condom. Shortly afterwards, he and his wife got up and left. After Tina realized what had happened, she thanked me profusely and said that she felt in a daze, knew he was about to put his bareback cock in her, but could not move a muscle or say anything.
Since then I have had to hand condoms to a number of guys or remind them to put one one before they entered her. Since she is sensitive to being pounded, after an experience where the guy's pounding hurt her, I also had to tell quite a few to, "Take it easy, not so hard, it makes her sore and she will stop."
So, don't feel bad that you have to watch out for your wife. It is just part of the experience. |