[VegasLee]

First, talk to the club owners, they sound like the responsible ones here, they are wanting to know the FACTS from the people involved rather then going on hearsay from others.

Sometimes people will say all kinds of things about other people to newbies, like someone is a predator or they have been banned from all other clubs. It may or may not be true. Also, club owners don't normally warn everyone at the door about others. They are dealing with adults, not school kids and should not have to be baby sitting anyone.

Since you invited others to start playing with your wife I would think you should have been there watching over her and being with her. Your new but you are also going to have to take some of the blame for what took place. It was your responsibility to keep things under control and the way you wanted them for you and your wife. If I ever let things in a group room get out of control with my wife she would kick my ass and that would be the end of the play. Everyone has to take responsibility for their actions when playing in the adult world.

I will agree that others had a hand in this but so did you and a big part of it was the way you handled the whole thing.

If you want the owners of the club to have the facts, talk to them. If not, go to other clubs and forget this ever happened and watch yourself next time.