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SnowwwWhite · 07-06-2008, 01:52 PM

I just hope that you both will get full STD tests and confirm you're clean before playing again. That's only fair to the people you now come into contact with. Especially if you advertise yourselves as disease-free or give people the impression you only play with condoms.

If I was about to play with someone who said they only play with condoms it would be extremely disturbing to think they had recently been compromised and hadn't been tested to clear things up... and were continuing to play and put themselves out as a clean, condom couple. At this point, they wouldn't know for sure they were clean and could be exposing other couples who are also trying to play it safe.

So sorry to hear about that bad first experience for you guys. But thanks for sharing. I'm sure your experience will help other people be more aware of what's going on, especially when playing with people they don't know. You sound responsible and conscientious and it shouldn't have happened. Hope you didn't get exposed to anything. Did your wife have any idea how he managed to take the condom off while you weren't looking?

Definitely talk to the club owners. It could save other newbies from the same experience you had. You expected others to be looking out for you, now it's your turn to look out for other potential victims and help put an end to these predators.

07-06-2008, 01:52 PM	#3 (permalink)
SnowwwWhite Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Feb 2008 Posts: 101 Location: Home Status: Female	Re: First time experience was a bad one. I just hope that you both will get full STD tests and confirm you're clean before playing again. That's only fair to the people you now come into contact with. Especially if you advertise yourselves as disease-free or give people the impression you only play with condoms. If I was about to play with someone who said they only play with condoms it would be extremely disturbing to think they had recently been compromised and hadn't been tested to clear things up... and were continuing to play and put themselves out as a clean, condom couple. At this point, they wouldn't know for sure they were clean and could be exposing other couples who are also trying to play it safe. So sorry to hear about that bad first experience for you guys. But thanks for sharing. I'm sure your experience will help other people be more aware of what's going on, especially when playing with people they don't know. You sound responsible and conscientious and it shouldn't have happened. Hope you didn't get exposed to anything. Did your wife have any idea how he managed to take the condom off while you weren't looking? Definitely talk to the club owners. It could save other newbies from the same experience you had. You expected others to be looking out for you, now it's your turn to look out for other potential victims and help put an end to these predators.