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Originally Posted by DecaturAreaCpl  I cannot for the life of me understand why this topic gets so much attention. Are men really that afraid that giving/getting a blowjob in the during group sex (or any other time) will make them wake up the next day and want to get married to the guy next door? It's ok to screw somebody else's wife, and ok for another guy to screw your wife, because "it's only sex". Well..? |
You know its posts like this which get the whole male bisexually threads to go down hill.
Let me explain this to you as a straight male. Its got nothing to do with fear, its that we don't WANT a guy to give us a BJ nor do we want to blow a guy. Imagine a 95 year old woman with rotted teeth, bad breath and open herpes sores. Thats about how attractive another man is to me for sex. Its how I'm wired, period. Its not homophobia, I'm not afraid of turning gay, I'm not repressing anything, it just doesn't appeal to me in the slightest. Sex is chemical and mental. Whatever chemicals and brain wiring that makes some men enjoy or at least not mind other men having oral sex with them is not present in me.
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Originally Posted by MikeandDawn Perhaps you need to bring it up like I do. I don't discuss it before hand, but the first time we are with a new M partner, while he's inside Dawn, I'll ask them if they want me to go down on her. Of course, she ALWAYS says yes, and the other guy agrees just to go with the flow and keep the motion going. |
Nothing like trying to trick a guy into a bisexual activity. I'd have said no.