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Originally Posted by CallMeLoki  Anyway, do you folks think we are really going about this wrong, and should stick to a more conventional approach of finding potential partners through swinger parties, swinger web-sites, etc.? Post your candid thoughts please! The last thing I'd want to do is damage our own relationship. |
No one can say you are wrong. That fate can only be in your hands if things don't work out. I feel GT is only saying you are taking higher risks, going about this, the way you are. Not that it couldn't work or even hasn't worked, for a few. But there is an easier way, and thats pertaining to people in the swinging community.
We would have to agree with our experience. We play with single males and single females. So far, with great outcomes. The single males we have played with have been very experienced within the lifestyle. No drama, no issues to work on. Just good sex. Yes, they even have had partners previously in the lifestyle. To us that gives certainty that everyone understands. We just like to keep things in a less risky area. We are just pointing out some potential risks. You seem to have a great relationship, how do you both feel about taking this in a less risky way ?
Do you think that you couldn't meet people in the lifestyle that would excite you, like the male and female you have your sights on now ?
I'm just saying, there are some really sexy people in the lifestyle
. Don't over look that
