Re: Men: Bi-curious, Bi-sexual, or just plain sexual? Lots of grey area to be sure.. In my preadolescence I occasionally engaged in guy guy (boy boy?) contact to include exchanging of oral favors (you do it awhile and I'll do it for awhile) and I've often wondered how commonplace that actually is. How many guys have explored that same area but would sooner die than admit it?
Sex is sex in my opinion... exploring is exploring... and if it feels good.. well just go with the flow. if you've never tried it, how do you know you don't like it?
As a teenager I was actually forced to have sex with this older guy from school. I just thought it was cool to be hanging with him.. we went for a ride and parked in a secluded spot and he got me high.. my first real buzz so I was pretty out of it when he made his move. I was afraid and tried to resist but basically gave in to fear and submitted. I gave him head and he returned the favor so in essence, my first official blow job was from a guy. Was I traumatized? no.. was it awful? no.. in fact when he blew me, it felt damn good.
So am I gay?... nooooo, I loooove women... am I bi? I don't think so but I suppose that goes to perception .. would I give a guy head or lick and suck his privates if the situation were right? yeah, probably ( if he just pulled it out of my wife.. oooh yeah). Would I kiss him? no... you figure it out.. I'm not much for labels. |