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Originally Posted by BorisNatasha  Labels are for people who can't figure things out as they go along.
It's your life, do with it what you will. Worrying about what the other person thinks, and especially allowing it to influence your actions, will just make you miserable. That is a truism that is hard to accept, but the older you get the easier it is to follow, in our experience. |
Labels are for people who get hung up on them.. Personally, I agree whole heartedly with Boris n Natasha's post.. If you are going to be worried what everyone else thinks, then whats the point? Why even swing? Its not like is universally acceptable..
The late Sam Kinison used to tell the joke that every american male somewhere deep in thier psyche was a bi/homosexual fantasy, and he wanted it out..
The stigma of Bi sexual contact between guys, came from the late 70's early 80's when the whole AIDS epidemic started, panic spread and what was already on the fringes was pushed all the way out of bounds. Everyone became afraid that if they played with a bi guy that they would catch something.. A large part of that still exists today.
I really didnt want to get on a soapbox here, but, a profile I saw recently brought it all the way home and made me think.. they put on thier profile that they only played bareback
,and thier reasoning is, if you are going to do oral, without dental dams and condoms, then whats the point in bothering to cover up for intercourse.. you have already exchanged body fluids.. (precum, and the ever tasty pussy juice) .. lets face a fact that most arent willing to confront, Even if a woman or for that matter a guy, given the threads topic, blows a guy, and makes him cum, even if they spit, instead of swallow, they are still recieving the fluids..
Sexuality is what it is, labels are for people that need to hide behind them.. if placed in the right erotic situation, I freely admit, I don't know what would happen..
The only label I have ever placed on myself and the one my wife agrees with as well is we are TRY sexual.. Who knows what we might in an unguarded moment give it a TRY, so long as its not hurting anyone, who cares