 Re: Transition Lines
Wonderful thread Spoo!!!!!
Well even with our combined years of experience in the lifestyle we too struggle with this as well. Pepper you make a great point in that it's the 5 steps of selling....
After spending sometime with a couple getting to know more about them, their likes dislikes etc I (Pam) will usually just simply ask them, "are you guys interested in getting better acquainted with each other?" .......which I then usually offer to go see what rooms are available if we get the yes response we are hoping for!
My biggest struggle is that I over think whether or not the other couple is interested........so I then to drag out the asking because lets face it nobody likes to hear no, while you understand it's going to happen, still doesn't mean you have to like it. We have found and both agree it's always more well received when the women do the asking verses the men. So Tom rarely will say anything other that the nidge toward me that he is interested........(he has this adorable raising of the brow thing he does followed by a gleam in his devilish eyes lol).....
In retrospec I would have to say I struggle more in "reading" the other couples signals as to if they are even interested than I do with asking........ |