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funcpl4life · 07-03-2008, 10:23 AM

MN,
Keep that positive self-talk going! When you start to have the golly-wobbles and what-ifs, don't figure out if it's something you should worry about or not. Just cut it off and think of 3 or 4 really good things. "Boy they're fun to hang out with." "I can't wait to see so and so's fuck-face." (or whatever blows your dress up) "Man will I be ready to bang hubby when this is all over."
I find that I am usually my own worst enemy and by cutting negative self-talk off, I am much more able to have a good time.
Your mileage may vary.
Mr FC4L (aka Cognitive Models R Us)

07-03-2008, 10:23 AM	#11 (permalink)
funcpl4life Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Jan 2006 Posts: 133 Location: NW Arkansas Status: Couple	Re: Any calming advise? MN, Keep that positive self-talk going! When you start to have the golly-wobbles and what-ifs, don't figure out if it's something you should worry about or not. Just cut it off and think of 3 or 4 really good things. "Boy they're fun to hang out with." "I can't wait to see so and so's fuck-face." (or whatever blows your dress up) "Man will I be ready to bang hubby when this is all over." I find that I am usually my own worst enemy and by cutting negative self-talk off, I am much more able to have a good time. Your mileage may vary. Mr FC4L (aka Cognitive Models R Us)