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Old 07-03-2008, 10:14 AM   #14 (permalink)
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Default Re: Are we in the right place?

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Originally Posted by shags View Post
We're completely inexperienced, but want to watch and be watched with another couple--nothing else beyond that. Looking at SLS and here, we seem to be in a distinct minority.

Are there better venues for finding like-minded couples who are on the vanilla side of soft swap? We're definitely in the voyeuristic/exhibitionistic camp, but here and SLS tend to lean much more to the wild side, and I fear we'll never find an outlet for making this fantasy real.

Suggestions?
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First off, let me say there are plenty of couples out there that want this sort of fun.. most are just starting out, like yourselves..

The best suggestion I could make is to think in terms of visiting a on premises club, you dont have to swap partners but can certainly watch the action and engage in whatever you feel comfortable with yourselves..

Beyond that, the next best thing is to browse the profiles using the term soft swap as your guide
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