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Old 07-03-2008, 01:01 AM   #34 (permalink)
Gordo
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Join Date: Sep 2006
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Location: langley BC
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Gordo is off to a great start
Default Re: Signals-That you're not Ok

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Originally Posted by socolais View Post
I think it's easy to "monday morning quarterback" this event and say that Pet missed an opportunity to establish his rank in the alpha male hierarchy - and for some folks, that's VERY important. I also respect a man that carefully chooses his battles. This was the swinger's equivilent of a Kobiashi Marou - a no win scenario. I think Julie's response was appropriate.
It's not about establishing your place in the pecking order. He's trying to do that for you. It's about you acting in such an unusual manner as to establish that you're not a victim and not going to be slotted anywhere by him.

I don't advocate violence by any means but I think he'll find that this guy will try to push him again.


What does he do. Leave his wife to tell the guy off????
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