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Originally Posted by shags  Thanks for all the replies. Sounds like an on-premise club would be the way to go, although that presents some logistical challenges on its own, as I'm not aware of any nearby.
The sentiment that it is harder if you're soft swap is interesting. You would think that there'd be fewer people at the "extreme" and progressively more people the more vanilla you get. Either that's the case (and what makes people want to stay soft swap also makes them harder to find), or it's full swap that's more prevalent and it is actually the soft swappers who are farther from vanilla!
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Soft-swap is kind of like being bi-racial. There are lots of people who are of a certain race, but a lot fewer who are the combination of the two. Being soft swap, especially long-term, is the in-between spot. You're not really vanilla, but you're not really a full swinger. It just means you'll have to get more creative to meet people who are into what you're into.
Plan a weekend, find an on-premises club, and have a mini-vacation. You may find exactly what you're looking for. Or, as I mentioned previously, go to a resort, an make a big, fat vacation out of it.
Pepper