Re: Any calming advise? Socolais is right, in my opinion. A massage done with soft music should calm the nerves. If only one person is nervous, the other three can all massage at the same time.
We once had a couple calm us down with a game they called "Rain." The massagee laid on her stomach, nude, and the other three touched her lightly while she imagined the touches to be soft warm rain. The other husband did a narration to stimulate her imagination of the rain. Then it was my turn. It worked!
Good luck! Sounds like fun!
Mr. Alura
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