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MN hotdish · 07-02-2008, 10:57 AM

So we met this couple on SLS. We've hung out several times now & all 4 enjoy each other. They've been full swap for a couple of years & we've only experienced a couple FMF encounters. The other couple seems very understanding of our "newness" we've all discussed boundaries (we are only willing to do same room) They have said repetedly that they are comfortable with how fast or slow we take things...All good, right?
We are planning on spending the evening with them on Saturday & I'm really excited!...BUT I'm also afraid that I'll loose my nerve.
Anyone have any advise for calming the "1st play date jitters"? I know that if I "chicken out" I'll regret it. These 2 are definately the perfect "starter" couple for us.

07-02-2008, 10:57 AM	#1 (permalink)
MN hotdish Here to Stay Join Date: Apr 2008 Posts: 63 Location: Minnesota Status: M.Female SLS Name:MNhotdish	Any calming advise? So we met this couple on SLS. We've hung out several times now & all 4 enjoy each other. They've been full swap for a couple of years & we've only experienced a couple FMF encounters. The other couple seems very understanding of our "newness" we've all discussed boundaries (we are only willing to do same room) They have said repetedly that they are comfortable with how fast or slow we take things...All good, right? We are planning on spending the evening with them on Saturday & I'm really excited!...BUT I'm also afraid that I'll loose my nerve. Anyone have any advise for calming the "1st play date jitters"? I know that if I "chicken out" I'll regret it. These 2 are definately the perfect "starter" couple for us. __________________ No one will ever win the battle of the sexes, there is too much flirting with the enemy.