Quote:
Originally Posted by 3sumff  For one we enjoy the thought of the lifestyle, especially, when we incorporate it with our sexual sessions. We love flirting with other couples. Whether it turns sexual or not! Once again, we have had some good times with some of our experiences.
Now, what we don't like...We really don't care to go to the parties or the meet and greets. We feel that that the situation is just to set-up! I know this sounds weird, but we would like a more natural way of swinging.
For example, we meet a couple and there is "NO" talk of swinging. Actually, swinging isn't even the reason why we are friends. As time goes on, we become really good friends. Then for whatever reason, the couple becomes interested in "swinging." Fine, sounds great and sounds a little more natural. They know us, they have become in tuned to us. This situation sounds better! |
Unfortunately, what you are looking for is very rare and while it does happen it happens just as you described it... when you aren't looking. It's just one of those things that you will probably end up keeping in the back of your head and pulling out as a fantasy then maybe someday at some point you'll meet a couple that you become friends with and things just happen to turn out perfectly.
From the sounds of it, you not only want to find this perfect couple but you want THEM to be the one to initiate things with you or you just want things to spontaniously happen where it appears that no one initiated anything, which makes the likelihood of this fantasy becoming reality a lot less likely.