[bryanlee]

It seems to me that you are giving her permission to have sex with another, but she is shying away from the subject while at the same time planning to or actually having sex with another man/men.

For me it would only work if we were able to both discuss the subject openly and it doesn't appear you have been able to do that so far. Even if you say you don't care what she does you should still discuss it make sure you are both on the same page as far as what you are both getting/want from this whole experience.

It is my opinion that if you don't have some serious discussion before she proceeds you are asking for trouble.

Good Luck to you both.

Bryan & Sharon