Re: How did you deal? i have no idea how long he's been dating her, but i am suspicious of people that remarry quickly.
are you happy with jeff? if the answer is yes, then what difference will a bit of paper, or an egagement ring make?
if your not happy with him, why not? surely a bit of paper or an engagement ring can't SOLVE those problems.
Mrs P. is always asking why we're not getting engaged yet. and i keep telling her that i take marriage seriously. if we're together for 5 years, then get engaged, or get engaged now, and married in 5 years, what is the difference? we've still spent 5 years in a wonderful loving relationship.
speeding up the process just to get some numbers the same smacks of immaturity, or a tthe least, no real regard for the enormity of the step of getting married. |